A snake will always be a snake. But cant u take the poison out making the snake not venomous?
A detective said to me once “a snake will always be a snake” My reply to him was “what if that snake was your Child?” “Wouldnt your love for them keep hope alive that they could change?” He didnt reply. You can change a snake from venomous to safe with medical help. Its still a snake.. yes..but a much safer one. But change can only jappen with someone new..not with someone who knew the “old you” What is your opinion? Do you believe an abuser can change? And keep in mind…what if the abuser is your child??